The Will Smith/ Jada Pinkett Story: SEX,SWINGING & ROLEPLAYING
While most couples who have been together for 20 years think a good time is a night in with a box set, Will and Jada Pinkett Smith’s lovelife reads more like the plot of a very kinky movie. But as Will cries and laments his failures as a husband on TV, we reveal the secrets of their wild marriage.
Masturbating 5 times a day
Jada – who has admitted that she has had “lots of experience with sex toys” and that during an “exploration state” while abstaining from men before dating Will she was giving herself five orgasms a day -said that her and Will keep things spicy by being adventurous when it comes to sex.
The actress said “nice outfits and high heels” was a part of this, but they also liked to indulge in raunchy roleplay.
“Think of places outside that are comfortable to have sex. Does he have access to his office? Have a fantasy date. Be his secretary,” she advised.
“Anything like that can keep it going. Anything it takes to keep the flame alive
Will has said Jada enjoys watching his on-screen sex scenes, saying that she is a “little freaky like that”.
And she’s also previously admitted that she had a sex addiction, saying on Round Table Talk that “when I was younger, I definitely think I had a sex addiction of some kind, yes, that everything could be fixed by sex. You know what I’m saying?’
Rumours of swinging
Rumours that Will and Jada enjoy group sex have dogged the couple since they first hooked up in the 90s.
When questioned about it on a US TV show, Jada said: “The craziest rumour? “That Will and I are swingers. It’s constant!
“And I’m like, ‘yo I wish! I wish!'”
However, the pair added more fuel to the rumours by alluding that their relationship is in fact an open one.
In 2005, Will told the New York Post “in our marriage vows, we didn’t say ‘forsaking all others’.”
He then continued with “If it came down to it, then one [spouse] can say to the other, ‘Look, I need to have sex with somebody. I’m not going to if you don’t approve of it — but please approve of it’.”
Jada seemingly backed up Will’s marriage confession during an interview with HuffPostLive in April 2013 saying that “Will is his own man. I’m here as his partner, but he is his own man.
“He has to decide who he wants to be and that’s not for me to do for him. Or vice versa.”
Let me first say this, there are far more important things to talk about in regards to what is happening in the world than whether I have an open marriage or not. I am addressing this issue because a very important subject has been born from discussions about my statement that may be worthy of addressing.
The statement I made in regard to, “Will can do whatever he wants,” has illuminated the need to discuss the relationship between trust and love and how they co-exist.
Do we believe loving someone means owning them? Do we believe that ownership is the reason someone should “behave”? Do we believe that all the expectations, conditions, and underlying threats of “you better act right or else” keep one honest and true? Do we believe that we can have meaningful relationships with people who have not defined nor live by the integrity of his or her higher self? What of unconditional love? Or does love look like, feel like, and operate as enslavement? Do we believe that the more control we put on someone the safer we are? What of TRUST and LOVE?
Should we be married to individuals who can not be responsible for themselves and their families within their freedom? Should we be in relationships with individuals who we can not entrust to their own values, integrity, and LOVE…for us???
Here is how I will change my statement…Will and I BOTH can do WHATEVER we want, because we TRUST each other to do so. This does NOT mean we have an open relationship…this means we have a GROWN one.
ThERE Were reports of Will having it off with his Focus co-star Margot Robbie in 2013.
This was was fuelled by US mag Star’s explosive cover story of both co-stars appearing together in comprising photos taken in a photo booth, following a string of reports that the co-stars were getting too close.
The set of racy pictures included the Australian beauty lifting her top to reveal her bra and Will showing his bare chest.
It was reported that the fun didn’t stop in the booth, with Will carrying the blonde bombshell back to his trailer after taking the playful yet raunchy photos.
A seedy start
Even though Jada didn’t get the Fresh Prince of Bel Air role way back in 1994, she maintained a close friendship with Will.
This blossomed into romance the following year, despite Will still being married to Sheree Fletcher, mother of his son Trey, now 25.
When discussing the scandal surrounding Will being a married man when they first hooked up, Jada said: “he was div” before following with “the ‘forced’ hadn’t happened yet.” Will divorced the same year their relationship became official. Its been rocky but they are still kicking it on.